Most folks find it sad when they hear that a family ranch is up for sale. They feel the loss of their friends, shared history and community along with everyone else.
I recently heard a rancher friend say “you can’t eat tradition or a legacy”. I guess I see both sides. For most family ranchers, the work we do and the businesses we run are far more about lifestyle than money; because, few of us get rich or even stay even in this line of work.
It’s a funny feeling, sitting on millions in land assets but having to battle for a meager operating loan or being turned down when you need to buy a tractor or truck.
I’ve sure watched folks sell out when they are too old to operate their place and none of their kids wants to stay.
The truth is, if we are good parents, we want our children to pursue their own passions and it’s selfish to try to keep them “down on the farm” if they want something else for themselves.
It’s also a fact that after a young lifetime watching their parents and grandparents wage a hand to mouth existence, sometimes kids just want an escape and easier life. Can’t fault anyone for wanting a better life.
For us, it’s been a constant challenge to stay profitable since I moved here and married Fred more than thirty years ago.
Taking care of his folks at the end of their lives about broke us, and never in a million years did I think Fred would be gone nine months after his mom.
Since then, I’ve sold the federal permits and focused on running a smaller herd on our private ground. Everything has been reinvested in our operation and I can only hope and pray our investment and hard work pays off.
I stay for one main reason, because this is the life my daughter wants.
Our ranch celebrates 160 years this year, and Patrice is the fifth generation of her family here. Who wouldn’t be proud of that legacy. I truthfully think ranching is a tougher business today than ever. I hope and pray we’ll make it.
We both work hard. I’ve told her I’ll keep working as long as I can. After that, who knows.
I guess the point of this piece is just to say, don’t judge folks who move on. Everyone in family agriculture is just doing their best.
My father in law Les used to remind us that every generation does things differently, and that the ranch shouldn’t feel like an anchor around your neck; but rather, a tool to build a meaningful life.
Our place looks different than it did even five years ago. I’m just hopeful that our changes add up to more practicality and productivity. Only time will tell.
Meanwhile, we’ll cherish our lives here and enjoy everyday. It’s wonderful to live in a place that makes you feel happy just walking out your front door each morning.
For the folks who move on, I genuinely appreciate your contributions and I wish you every happiness. Take a cruise and slurp down an umbrella drink for me!
Kris Stewart is a rancher in Paradise Valley, Nevada.